Are you coachable?
Is coaching right for you? Maybe, but maybe not. According to my experience, and reinforced by my latest read, the The Trillion Dollar Coach: The Leadership Playbook of Sillicon Valley’s Bill Campbell, here are the qualities of the most coachable people (athletes, executives and air talent alike):
Honesty
Ability to be vulnerable
Self-awareness of your strengths and weaknesses
Openness to facing your blind spots
Humility to admit you aren't perfect
Humility also to know that you are part of something bigger than yourself
Willingness to persevere and work hard
Openness to learning new ideas and new ways of doing things
Who isn’t coachable? Someone who is not open to feedback, not willing to test new ideas, and someone who is not willing to disagree with the coach to deepen the conversation.
The least productive dynamic in the coach relationship is the person who says what they think the coach wants to hear. Keep the BS to a minimum.